Tuesday, March 10, 2020
You must be over the moon
You must be over the moon when you were promoted in the workplace. You dont mind getting drunk on a Friday night, even worried about a hangover during the weekend. But have you thought about your colleagues? Did it cross your mind that you might grow apart from them? Have you envisioned yourself stressed out several months after your promotion? You might think of quitting your job.Promotion must be good news, but you must look ahead. Instead of ending up with so much disappointment (and resentment), then you should look at it as a first step to a slow process towards success. Its elend about the money, not even higher profile. Here are five ways to do itYou must consider your relationship with your colleagues. You relished the midweek boozing and enjoyed talking about your (former) oben liegend. And you replaced him (or her). It would be a mistake to assume that things remained the same between you and your peers. What if one felt that he (or she) deserved it more? Your leadership wo uld be put to a test, and the outcome might not be pleasing to the rest. On the other hand, you could end up on your own. It might be a lonely existence. Whether you admit it or not, you couldnt talk freely with them like it used to. No need to be apprehensive about what would lie ahead, as you could manage it by arranging meetings. It will make your peers get used to your new role. You could encourage them to give your ideas (or suggestions). But dont own it.Discuss your new role with your manager. You wont shrink from more responsibility, but you must know the tasks clearly. Dont ever think that you know it all. Asking guidance from your superior doesnt mean youre not up for the job. On the contrary, your boss will respect you. Admit it or not, its impossible to know all the aspects of your job and where all the responsibilities will start and finish.You must make changes in your working style and relationships. It would mean adopting a more disciplined lifestyle. Letting go a car efree routine may cause discomfort at first, but think of what you will gain in the long run. If you have a family, then you dont want to lessen the quality time with them. Late nights must end, even the things you used to do. And your friends wont take it against you. Social media would keep you connected to each other. If youre happily single, then think of it as growing up.You must create new relationships. Youre in a different circle, and it will be natural to seek people who have the same role as you. Not that you believe that your old friendships dont have any chances of survival, but new relationships will be for your own good. You dont want any form of isolation, which could affect you.Dont put too much pressure on yourself. The first few months would be challenging, as you have something to prove to yourself, your boss and colleagues. You could think about it most of the time, which would affect you and your relationships. Focus on one task at a time. Delegate it to your co lleague if its a must. Never have second thoughts about seeking guidance from your superior when the situation arises.
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